專家話worr

專家話worr，小孩都會經過一個階段叫”separation anxiety stage”，而最好的處理方法是每次要離開他／她的時候，千萬不要偷偷離開，一定要跟她說再見。

If your child gets upset when you leave her now, she's right on schedule. Twelve to 18 months is prime time for separation anxiety — a psychological term that means your toddler can't bear to be without you.

The best way to handle painful farewells is to keep them short and sweet. Say goodbye with a quick kiss and head out the door. Don't sneak out, but don't prolong the agony with extended hugging and comforting. Your toddler's tears will subside soon after you're out of sight. It's hard not to feel guilty, but in the long run you'll help your child become more independent if you don't hover.

本人一直覺得小女還沒懂事，跟她說道裡好像有點早。所以每天早上上班，我都是悄悄的離開，而她也習以為常。

前天送女兒上學，心想：好吧，既然是專家的意見，我也儘管試試看。所以在我快要離開的時候，我跟xinxin說：

“xinxin，mami 要上班，你要乖乖聽老師的話，下課就可以回家！”

此話一出，我知道這話真不能說。

xinxin眼淚說來就來，還纏著我，不讓我離開她半步。

所以說嗎，“專家話” 不一定正確！